If you suspect someone you know is being hurt by their partner:

• Don’t be afraid to let him or her know that you are concerned for their safety.
• Acknowledge that he or she is in a very difficult and scary situation.
• Remember that what they need most is someone who will believe and listen to them.
• Be non-judgmental. Respect your friend or family member’s decisions. There are many reasons why victims stay in abusive relationships.
• Know that he or she may leave and return to the relationship many times.
• Do not criticize his or her decisions or try to make them feel guilty. He or she will need your support even more during those times.
• Help him or her to develop a safety plan.
• Encourage him or her to talk to people who can provide help and guidance.
• Offer information about Haven House and give them the crisis line number (907) 235-8943.